{"id":134,"date":"2022-04-04T08:58:00","date_gmt":"2022-04-04T08:58:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/?p=127"},"modified":"2022-04-04T08:58:00","modified_gmt":"2022-04-04T08:58:00","slug":"cum-sa-fii-un-gentleman-in-2023-part-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/?p=134","title":{"rendered":"Cum s\u0103 fii un gentleman \u00een 2023 ( part. 1 )"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o lume digitalizat\u0103. Care ne desparte de multe ocazii \u0219i persoane prin intermediul internetului \u0219i a ecranelor.&nbsp;&nbsp;\u0218i odat\u0103 cu cre\u0219terea \u00eent\u00e2lnirilor online de-a lungul anilor, at\u00e2t b\u0103rba\u021bii, c\u00e2t \u0219i mai ales femeile se \u00eentreab\u0103: \u201eUnde au plecat to\u021bi gentlemaii ?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEifkv5na-o2hENeygopupO7jXbodKaC70EYo3LhnrcFAe5nIyJwjptKwJfkJfBSh8UHazpKwi7pAk4_gQ0QmjQGpid4tu26CBFhRoq-ZnvvJY6VeJP0J7GU1146gXy8cusZN_qEWJX2jTq9DYFHrgdDUTrd68_T3YxvFTvuMI-ikqOTbMsYQeyt3gSOHQ\/s1170\/Golf-Cup-1170x680.jpg\" style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/ywAAAAAAQABAAACAUwAOw==\" fifu-lazy=\"1\" fifu-data-sizes=\"auto\" 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1600w\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"680\" data-original-width=\"1170\" fifu-data-src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEifkv5na-o2hENeygopupO7jXbodKaC70EYo3LhnrcFAe5nIyJwjptKwJfkJfBSh8UHazpKwi7pAk4_gQ0QmjQGpid4tu26CBFhRoq-ZnvvJY6VeJP0J7GU1146gXy8cusZN_qEWJX2jTq9DYFHrgdDUTrd68_T3YxvFTvuMI-ikqOTbMsYQeyt3gSOHQ\/s16000\/Golf-Cup-1170x680.jpg?ssl=1\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Dar pentru \u00eenceput? Ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 acest cuv\u00e2nt?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><span><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>GENTLEMAN, gentlemeni, s. m.<\/b> B\u0103rbat cu maniere alese, irepro\u0219abile, cu caracter distins. [Pr.: g\u00e9ntlmen] \u2013 Cuv. engl.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>gentleman sm [At: DEX \/ P: gent\u0103lmen \/ Pl: ~i \/ E: eg gentleman]<\/b>&nbsp;B\u0103rbat cu comport\u0103ri alese, irepro\u0219abile, cu caracter distins.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>G\u00c9NTLEMAN s.m.<\/b> Om cu maniere alese \u0219i cu caracter frumos. [Pron. gentleman, var. gentelman s.m. \/ &lt; engl. gentleman].<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>GENTLEMAN [pr.: g\u00e9ntlmen] ~ani m.<\/b> Persoan\u0103 care respect\u0103 cu stricte\u021be eticheta; om cu purtare curtenitoare; gentilom. \/Cuv. engl.<\/span><span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: large;\"><br \/>Ce face un gentleman modern ?<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Exist\u0103 multe sursedespre ceea ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 a fi un gentleman.<\/p>\n<p>Pentru unii, este definit de stilul de \u00eembr\u0103c\u0103minte al unui b\u0103rbat. Al\u021bii ar spune c\u0103 este vorba despre cavalerism; deschiz\u00e2nd u\u0219i pentru o doamn\u0103 sau ridic\u00e2nd un obiect sc\u0103pat jos de o femeie.<\/p>\n<p>Ast\u0103zi, cred c\u0103 \u00eenseamn\u0103 mult mai mult.<\/p>\n<p>A fi un gentleman modern \u00eenseamn\u0103 mai mult dec\u00e2t a te \u00eembr\u0103ca un costum. \u0218i este mai mult dec\u00e2t s\u0103 impresionezi femeia pe care o curtezi.<\/p>\n<p>Este vorba de compasiune \u0219i de a-i trata pe ceilal\u021bi cu respect. Este vorba despre a face lucrurile mici pentru a u\u0219ura via\u021ba oamenilor din jurul t\u0103u.<\/p>\n<p>Un domn are o sete nes\u0103\u021bioas\u0103 de cunoa\u0219tere \u0219i educa\u021bie, dar o sete \u0219i mai mare de a crea \u0219i de a comunica lucrurile pe care le-a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat, s\u0103 contribuie la un bine mai mare. Acesta este ceea ce \u00eel define\u0219te.<\/p>\n<p>Lucrul grozav este c\u0103, exers\u00e2nd regulat, devine o parte din cine este el. Acestea fiind spuse, iat\u0103 sfaturile mele despre ceea ce simt c\u0103 formeaz\u0103 un gentleman modern.<\/p>\n<p><span><!--more--><\/span><\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Sfaturi cum s\u0103 fii un gentlemen modern.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">1. Spune \u201ete rog\u201d \u0219i \u201emul\u021bumesc\u201d, u\u0219or \u0219i des.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Este un lucru mic dar foarte semnificativ. Aceste dou\u0103 cuvinte sunt semne distinctive ale etichetei adecvate. Ca gentleman, este benefic s\u0103-\u021bi faci un obicei de a folosi aceste dou\u0103 cuvinte c\u00e2t de des po\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p>Este un lucru at\u00e2t de mic, dar aceast\u0103 mic\u0103 bun\u0103voin\u021b\u0103 ne neteze\u0219te interac\u021biunile \u0219i \u00eei ajut\u0103 pe ceilal\u021bi s\u0103 se simt\u0103 de parc\u0103 e\u0219ti con\u0219tient de ele. Este o parte esen\u021bial\u0103 a conexiunii, angajamentului \u0219i mi\u0219c\u0103rii \u00eenainte.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">2. Scrie de m\u00e2n\u0103 mesajele de mul\u021bumire.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Indiferent dac\u0103 \u00eei scrii unui vechi prieten sau poten\u021bialului t\u0103u \u0219ef, un bilet de mul\u021bumire scris de m\u00e2n\u0103 poate \u00eensemna o ac\u021biune frumoas\u0103 \u0219i rar\u0103. Literal, nimeni nu mai face asta \u0219i astfel aceast\u0103 art\u0103 pierdut\u0103 te va face s\u0103 ie\u0219i \u00een eviden\u021b\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 fii memorabil pentru cei care contezi cel mai mult.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>3. Deschide \u0219i \u021bine u\u0219a pentru al\u021bii.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Acesta nu se aplic\u0103 numai femeii cu care te \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti, ci tuturor. Un domn \u021bine u\u0219ile deschise pentru b\u0103rba\u021bi, femei \u0219i copii deopotriv\u0103. Evit\u0103 s\u0103 stai \u00een mijlocul u\u0219ii \u00een timp ce o \u021bii deschis\u0103, asta este pur \u0219i simplu ciudat.&nbsp;O regul\u0103 general\u0103 rapid\u0103 &#8211;&nbsp; dac\u0103 cealalt\u0103 persoan\u0103 este relativ departe, nu o obliga s\u0103 fug\u0103. A \u021bine u\u0219a \u00een acest caz este mai mult o ac\u021biune neg\u00e2ndit\u0103 dec\u00e2t politicoas\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">4. Pl\u0103te\u0219te \u00eentotdeauna la primele \u00eent\u00e2lniri.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00cen\u021beleg c\u0103 femeile de ast\u0103zi sunt din ce \u00een ce mai independente, mai ales odat\u0103 cu ascensiunea fulger\u0103toare a feminismului. Cred doar c\u0103 este lucrul de domn de f\u0103cut. Am \u00eent\u00e2lnit \u0219i persoane care doreau s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103r\u021bim nota sau s\u0103 fie pl\u0103tit\u0103 de ele. Le-am comunicat c\u0103 apreciez faptul acesta, c\u0103 se ofer\u0103 \u0219i arat\u0103 respect dar insist \u0219i achit eu. Dac\u0103 e persistent\u0103, spun c\u0103 ne poate cump\u0103ra ceva la urm\u0103toarea vedere.<\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><br \/><\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">5. \u00cen timp ce e\u0219ti la o \u00eent\u00e2lnire, \u021bine telefonul ascuns.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Un gentleman \u0219tie c\u00e2nd este potrivit \u0219i nu este potrivit s\u0103-\u0219i foloseasc\u0103 telefonul, indiferent dac\u0103 este la o \u00eent\u00e2lnire sau nu. Pentru o \u00eent\u00e2lnire, atitudinea mea este s\u0103 \u021bin dispozitivul mobil ascuns tot timpul, cu excep\u021bia cazului \u00een care exist\u0103 o urgen\u021b\u0103 sau dac\u0103 dori\u021bi s\u0103-i ar\u0103ta\u021bi persoanei ceva care va ad\u0103uga valoare conversa\u021biei.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>6. Sfat despre remunerare.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Nim\u0103nui nu-i place un basculant ieftin. Multe industrii de prestare a unui serviciu \u2013 \u00een special la restaurante \u2013 chelnerii, etc. se bazeaz\u0103 pe bac\u0219i\u0219uri, deoarece generozitatea ta este cea care constituie cea mai mare parte a salariilor lor. Pute\u021bi oric\u00e2nd da bac\u0219i\u0219 &#8211; mai mult dac\u0103 serviciul a decurs conform eticii \u0219i chiar v-a pl\u0103cut deservirea.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>7. Exprim\u0103-\u021bi p\u0103rerea, spune ce crezi dar s\u0103 \u0219tii \u0219i c\u00e2nd s\u0103 taci.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Un domn vorbe\u0219te \u0219i \u00ee\u0219i folose\u0219te vocea, fie la o \u00eent\u00e2lnire cu o domni\u0219oar\u0103, fie la o \u00eent\u00e2lnire cu prietenii sau colegii. Ceea ce ai de spus este important; nu l\u0103sa pe nimeni s\u0103 te fac\u0103 s\u0103 sim\u021bi sau s\u0103 g\u00e2nde\u0219ti altfel. Un domn \u0219tie \u0219i s\u0103 asculte pe ceilal\u021bi. C\u00e2nd alte persoane vorbesc, nu-i \u00eentrerupe \u0219i nu \u00eencerca s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi formulezi r\u0103spunsul \u00eenainte ca interlocutorul s\u0103 termine ce are de zis. Ascult\u0103 \u00een mod atent ceea ce se spune \u0219i, odat\u0103 ce a terminat, po\u021bi spune ce ai \u00een minte.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">8. F\u0103 eforturi suplimentare c\u00e2nd \u0219tii c\u0103 po\u021bi.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Un domn \u0219tie c\u00e2nd este timpul s\u0103 treac\u0103 peste \u0219i dincolo de posibilit\u0103\u021bi. Frumuse\u021bea de a merge mai departe, peste obstacole, este c\u0103 acel drum e adesea mai pu\u021bin greu dec\u00e2t pare. \u0218i astfel po\u021bi de fapt s\u0103 mergi mult mai repede \u00een urm\u0103rirea viselor tale, a obiectivelor sau a ceea ce cau\u021bi s\u0103 atingi.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>9. D\u0103 totul c\u00e2nd \u0219tii c\u0103 ai mai mult de dat.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Indiferent dac\u0103 lucrezi la un proiect special sau te antrenezi pentru un maraton, vrei s\u0103-i oferi tot ceea ce ai. Las\u0103 totul acolo. Aproape \u00eentotdeauna vei fi recompensat de 10 ori m\u00e2ine pentru efortul depus ast\u0103zi. A\u0219a c\u0103, d\u0103 tot ce ai mai bun. Implic\u0103-te la maxim, cu to\u021bi porii.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>10. \u00centreb\u0103-i pe al\u021bii dac\u0103 au nevoie de o m\u00e2n\u0103 de ajutor.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Un gentleman d\u0103 \u00eentotdeauna o m\u00e2n\u0103 de ajutor, pentru c\u0103 \u0219tie c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd \u00eei ajut\u0103 pe al\u021bii, de fapt se ajut\u0103 pe sine. Cred cu adev\u0103rat c\u0103 karma exist\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 prime\u0219ti ceea ce dai \u00een aceast\u0103 via\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n<p>Nu \u00ee\u021bi ia nimic s\u0103 faci voluntariat sau s\u0103 dai \u00eenapoi comunit\u0103\u021bii prin dona\u021bii caritabile. \u00cen ziua de azi mul\u021bi s-au deprins s\u0103 primeasc\u0103 ceva. Dar \u00eencearc\u0103 invers. Ofer\u0103 ceva f\u0103r\u0103 ca s\u0103 a\u0219tepta\u021bi altceva \u00een schimb \u0219i ve\u021bi vedea, c\u00e2t de bine te vei sim\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">11. Ofer\u0103-te s\u0103 aju\u021bi un coleg care st\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 t\u00e2rziu la birou.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p>A te oferi s\u0103 aju\u021bi un coleg dac\u0103 \u00eel vezi mereu p\u00e2n\u0103 t\u00e2rziu la birou este un mic gest care nu numai c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi va spori karma bun\u0103, dar \u00ee\u021bi va c\u00e2\u0219tiga reputa\u021bia de a fi un juc\u0103tor de echip\u0103. \u0218i normal c\u0103 nu mereu va trebui s\u0103 o faci, el nu trebuie s\u0103 o ia ca pe ceva care te oblig\u0103 pe tine \u0219i s\u0103 se a\u0219tepte mereu la asta.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">12. Ofer\u0103-\u021bi locul femeilor \u0219i persoanelor \u00een v\u00e2rst\u0103.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2nd e\u0219ti \u00een transport public &#8211; autobuz, troleibuz sau metrou, ofer\u0103 locul altora care parc\u0103 ar avea nevoie de el mai mult dec\u00e2t tu. Nu este doar un gest politicos, ci \u0219i un gest de gentleman.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>13. Ofer\u0103 cuvinte de \u00eencurajare cuiva care are cu adev\u0103rat nevoie de ele.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Dac\u0103 vezi sau sim\u021bi c\u0103 cineva este mai pu\u021bin \u00eencrezut, nu-\u021bi fie team\u0103 s\u0103 vorbi\u021bi\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103-i spui c\u0103 e\u0219ti acolo pentru a-l asculta. O mic\u0103 discu\u021bie \u00eencurajatoare poate ajuta \u00een mare m\u0103sur\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eembun\u0103t\u0103\u021beasc\u0103 ziua cuiva.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">14. \u00cenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegi c\u00e2nd trebuie s\u0103 ac\u021bionezi, f\u0103r\u0103 ca cineva s\u0103 o cear\u0103.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Un domn \u0219tie ce trebuie f\u0103cut. Dac\u0103 nu, atunci g\u0103se\u0219te \u00eentotdeauna o modalitate de a-\u0219i da seama. Odat\u0103 ce ai aflat cum, este timpul s\u0103 te apuci de treab\u0103. Un om care ia m\u0103suri \u00eenainte de a-i fi cerut ceva, este un om care poate excela peste m\u0103sur\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>15. Str\u00e2nge m\u00e2na ferm, dar nu exagera.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Un b\u0103rbat care str\u00e2nge m\u00e2na ferm impune respect reciproc. O str\u00e2ngere de m\u00e2n\u0103 bun\u0103 este un pic o form\u0103 de art\u0103 \u00een sine. Nu \u00eencerca niciodat\u0103 s\u0103-l cople\u0219ti pe cealalt om, asta arat\u0103 doar un b\u0103rbat care \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103-\u0219i afirme domina\u021bia. De asemenea, trebuie evitat\u0103 o str\u00e2ngere de m\u00e2n\u0103 slab\u0103\/sl\u0103bit\u0103. O str\u00e2ngere ferm\u0103 de m\u00e2n\u0103 arat\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een sine.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>16. Vorbe\u0219te clar \u0219i cu \u00eencredere.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Un domn este iscusit \u00een a folosi cuvintele sale. Spune ceea ce vrea s\u0103 spun\u0103 cu precizie \u0219i scop. Nu-\u021bi morm\u0103i niciodat\u0103 cuvintele \u0219i nu vorbi at\u00e2t de lini\u0219tit \u00eenc\u00e2t ceilal\u021bi s\u0103 aib\u0103 probleme s\u0103 te aud\u0103. Vorbe\u0219te cu o voce care capteaz\u0103 aten\u021bia &#8211; cu for\u021b\u0103 \u0219i vigoare.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>17. Fii \u00eencrez\u0103tor \u00een abilit\u0103\u021bile tale.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>A\u0219a cum un domn ar trebui s\u0103 aib\u0103 \u00eencredere \u00een felul \u00een care vorbe\u0219te, el ar trebui s\u0103 aib\u0103, de asemenea, \u00eencredere deplin\u0103 \u00een abilit\u0103\u021bile sale \u0219i \u00een ceea ce are de oferit lumii. Dac\u0103 abilit\u0103\u021bile tale nu sunt acolo unde vrei s\u0103 fie, lucreaz\u0103 la asta. Practica bate gramatica. Indiferent dac\u0103 te prezin\u021bi ca un atlet profesionist sau te prezin\u021bi \u00een fa\u021ba unei mul\u021bimi de mii, practica, preg\u0103tirea \u0219i scopul sunt cheia. Orice ai face, f\u0103-o cu \u00eencredere.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">18. Cunoa\u0219te c\u00e2nd trebuie s\u0103 a\u0219tepte \u0219i c\u00e2nd trebuie s\u0103 ac\u021bioneze.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Un domn \u0219tie s\u0103 a\u0219tepte. Dac\u0103 nu faci progresul pe care sim\u021bi c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eel faci sau c\u0103 toat\u0103 lumea se mi\u0219c\u0103 \u00eentr-un ritm mai rapid dec\u00e2t tine, nu-\u021bi mai face griji at\u00e2t de mult. \u00cemi amintesc \u00eentotdeauna c\u0103 gratificarea \u00eent\u00e2rziat\u0103 poate fi unul dintre cele mai satisf\u0103c\u0103toare sentimente din lume. Un om care \u00ee\u0219i poate a\u0219tepta r\u00e2ndul va profita aproape \u00eentotdeauna de momentul c\u00e2nd \u00eei va veni timul.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>19. Nu dispre\u021bui convingerile altora.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Nu toat\u0103 lumea crede acelea\u0219i lucruri. Dumnezeul t\u0103u s-ar putea s\u0103 nu fie Dumnezeul meu, \u00een timp ce altcineva poate nici m\u0103car s\u0103 nu cread\u0103 \u00een Dumnezeu. Cu to\u021bii avem dreptul la propriile noastre convingeri. Nu trebuie s\u0103 fii de acord cu cineva, dar cu siguran\u021b\u0103 nu trebuie s\u0103 dispre\u021buie\u0219ti credin\u021ba altora pentru a te sim\u021bi mai bine. Spre exemplu, eu sunt ateu. A\u0219a s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat, a\u0219a am ales eu s\u0103 am alt\u0103 vizunea asupra religiei. Dar niciodat\u0103 nu am descurajat pe cineva \u00een aceast\u0103 direc\u021bie. Consider c\u0103 e frumos s\u0103 po\u021bi crede \u00een ceva \u0219i s\u0103 ai \u00een ce, \u00een cine crede. A\u0219a c\u0103 mereu, de\u0219i mi-am zis pozi\u021bia, nu am descurajat omul ci chiar am l\u0103udat faptul c\u0103 are o credin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i un Dumnezeu.&nbsp;Un domn respect\u0103 faptul c\u0103 to\u021bi b\u0103rba\u021bii \u0219i femeile au dreptul la propriul set de credin\u021be \u0219i c\u0103, cu c\u00e2t practic\u0103m mai mult\u0103 empatie, cu at\u00e2t va fi mai mult spa\u021biu pentru \u00een\u021belegere.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>20. Recunoa\u0219te c\u00e2nd gre\u0219e\u0219ti.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Nimeni nu are dreptate tot timpul. \u0218i \u00een timp ce nim\u0103nui nu-i place s\u0103 gre\u0219easc\u0103, un domn este capabil s\u0103 recunoasc\u0103 c\u00e2nd gre\u0219e\u0219te, simplu \u0219i u\u0219or.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>21. Nu alege o lupt\u0103 f\u0103r\u0103 motiv.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Fiecare are adev\u0103rul s\u0103u. Unii aleg s\u0103 lupte pentru adev\u0103rul cuiva. Ofer\u0103 totul. Dar este cu adev\u0103rat ceea ce vrea ? Acesta este ego-ul care iese \u00een cale. Dac\u0103 ai de g\u00e2nd s\u0103 alegi o lupt\u0103 (nu este conceput\u0103 \u00eentr-un mod fizic), atunci asigur\u0103-te c\u0103 po\u021bi argumenta cealalt\u0103 p\u0103rere, la fel de puternic ca a ta. \u00cen via\u021b\u0103, exist\u0103 3 adev\u0103ruri &#8211; adev\u0103rul lor, adev\u0103rul t\u0103u \u0219i adev\u0103rul real.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">22. Fii punctual.<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Exist\u0103 a\u0219a o percep\u021bi &#8211; \u201ea fi devreme \u00eenseamn\u0103 a fi la timp, a fi la timp \u00eenseamn\u0103 a \u00eent\u00e2rzia, a \u00eent\u00e2rzia este inacceptabil , dar s\u0103 stai t\u00e2rziu este acceptabil\u201d.&nbsp;Nu este vorba despre a fi la timp, ci despre respectarea propriilor angajamente. Dac\u0103 \u00eent\u00e2rzii cronic, spui practic c\u0103 timpul t\u0103u este mai valoros dec\u00e2t cei care te a\u0219teapt\u0103. S\u0103 fii la timp!<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>23. Fii c\u00e2t se poate de modest.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Un domn este un om modest. El \u0219tie c\u0103 nu exist\u0103 niciun merit \u00een comportamentul l\u0103ud\u0103ro\u0219iilor. El acord\u0103 aten\u021bie acolo unde se cuvine \u0219i \u00een\u021belege c\u0103 nu exist\u0103 un om bun dec\u00e2t sine. O persoan\u0103 modest\u0103 este cineva care nici nu are nevoie de laud\u0103 sau aprobare constant\u0103.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>24. Ridic\u0103-te pentru a str\u00e2nge m\u00e2na unei persoane.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Un domn se ridic\u0103 \u00eentotdeauna s\u0103 str\u00e2ng\u0103 m\u00e2na altei persoane. Nu conteaz\u0103 v\u00e2rsta sau sexul lor, s\u0103 se ridice pentru a da m\u00e2na este un lucru respectuos.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><b>25. F\u0103 complimente sincer \u0219i des.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n<p>C\u00e2t de des facem de fapt complimente autentice altor persoane? Ori de c\u00e2te ori vezi ceva care te impresioneaz\u0103 despre altcineva, spune-i ce merit\u0103 s\u0103 aud\u0103. Prea des ne \u021binem g\u00e2ndurile pentru noi \u00een\u0219ine, dar un compliment oportun \u0219i sincer poate \u00eenveseli ziua cuiva \u0219i este ceva de care ne-am putea folosi mai mult \u00een ziua de azi.&nbsp;<span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>Deoarece a\u0219 vorbi mai mult pe acest subiect, am desp\u0103r\u021bit tema \u00een 3 p\u0103r\u021bi. Urmeaz\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 dou\u0103 articole pe acest subiect:<\/p>\n<p><b>Cum s\u0103 fii un gentleman \u00een 2022 ( part.2 )<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Ghidul gentleman-ului modern<\/b><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Tr\u0103im \u00eentr-o lume digitalizat\u0103. 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