{"id":19,"date":"2023-11-27T08:37:00","date_gmt":"2023-11-27T08:37:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/?p=12"},"modified":"2023-11-27T08:37:00","modified_gmt":"2023-11-27T08:37:00","slug":"7-fraze-care-te-vor-ajuta-sa-faci-pace-dupa-o-cearta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/?p=19","title":{"rendered":"7 fraze care te vor ajuta s\u0103 faci pace dup\u0103 o ceart\u0103"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Majoritatea conflictelor cu cei dragi se termin\u0103 mai devreme sau mai t\u00e2rziu \u00een reconciliere, iar acest lucru este grozav. C\u00e2nd at\u00e2t dvs., c\u00e2t \u0219i partenerul dvs. v\u0103 r\u0103cori\u021bi \u0219i pute\u021bi vorbi calm, pute\u021bi \u00eencerca s\u0103 afla\u021bi motivele cear\u021bii, s\u0103 v\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103ca\u021bi complet \u0219i s\u0103 decide\u021bi cum s\u0103 preveni\u021bi astfel de situa\u021bii \u00een viitor.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<div class=\"separator\" style=\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEhutT9OS8uhH556kDUiplzJQuLmW6sHquxtggpCXbjTVpksd1cthYZYtwJAPeUAkcOV10m8Zstx4XYKlvTDq41iZ1unEtCOyiHKnzGh5ZIW7VYGRxP-H2VGnUkLaHjK3t0XTTmuqpekcSwi804HiP-bc2yqxHicW5Wbo-K-fnXI68KMSRBt2ABWhiY9yKli\/s4500\/close-up-jesus-taking-care-people.jpg\" imageanchor=\"1\" style=\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP\/\/\/ywAAAAAAQABAAACAUwAOw==\" fifu-lazy=\"1\" fifu-data-sizes=\"auto\" 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https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEhutT9OS8uhH556kDUiplzJQuLmW6sHquxtggpCXbjTVpksd1cthYZYtwJAPeUAkcOV10m8Zstx4XYKlvTDq41iZ1unEtCOyiHKnzGh5ZIW7VYGRxP-H2VGnUkLaHjK3t0XTTmuqpekcSwi804HiP-bc2yqxHicW5Wbo-K-fnXI68KMSRBt2ABWhiY9yKli\/s16000\/close-up-jesus-taking-care-people.jpg?ssl=1&w=1024&resize=1024&ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEhutT9OS8uhH556kDUiplzJQuLmW6sHquxtggpCXbjTVpksd1cthYZYtwJAPeUAkcOV10m8Zstx4XYKlvTDq41iZ1unEtCOyiHKnzGh5ZIW7VYGRxP-H2VGnUkLaHjK3t0XTTmuqpekcSwi804HiP-bc2yqxHicW5Wbo-K-fnXI68KMSRBt2ABWhiY9yKli\/s16000\/close-up-jesus-taking-care-people.jpg?ssl=1&w=1280&resize=1280&ssl=1 1280w, https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEhutT9OS8uhH556kDUiplzJQuLmW6sHquxtggpCXbjTVpksd1cthYZYtwJAPeUAkcOV10m8Zstx4XYKlvTDq41iZ1unEtCOyiHKnzGh5ZIW7VYGRxP-H2VGnUkLaHjK3t0XTTmuqpekcSwi804HiP-bc2yqxHicW5Wbo-K-fnXI68KMSRBt2ABWhiY9yKli\/s16000\/close-up-jesus-taking-care-people.jpg?ssl=1&w=1600&resize=1600&ssl=1 1600w\" border=\"0\" data-original-height=\"2826\" data-original-width=\"4500\" fifu-data-src=\"https:\/\/i1.wp.com\/blogger.googleusercontent.com\/img\/b\/R29vZ2xl\/AVvXsEhutT9OS8uhH556kDUiplzJQuLmW6sHquxtggpCXbjTVpksd1cthYZYtwJAPeUAkcOV10m8Zstx4XYKlvTDq41iZ1unEtCOyiHKnzGh5ZIW7VYGRxP-H2VGnUkLaHjK3t0XTTmuqpekcSwi804HiP-bc2yqxHicW5Wbo-K-fnXI68KMSRBt2ABWhiY9yKli\/s16000\/close-up-jesus-taking-care-people.jpg?ssl=1\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Iat\u0103 c\u00e2teva fraze care v\u0103 pot ajuta \u00een acest sens.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: large;\">1. Te rog spune-mi ce te-a sup\u0103rat<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Poate c\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 nu \u00een\u021belegi de ce partenerul t\u0103u este furios, sup\u0103rat sau jignit. Acest lucru este firesc: dac\u0103 a\u021bi \u00een\u021belege motivele celuilalt, v-a\u021bi certa mai pu\u021bin. Dar dac\u0103 acum dori\u021bi sincer s\u0103 \u00een\u021belege\u021bi cum arat\u0103 situa\u021bia din partea unei persoane dragi, ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eentreba\u021bi despre asta. \u0218i afl\u0103 de la partenerul t\u0103u care este cauza conflictului.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Pune \u00eentrebarea cu calm, altfel cearta s-ar putea s\u0103 nu se termine, ci mai degrab\u0103 s\u0103 izbucneasc\u0103 cu o vigoare re\u00eennoit\u0103. Dac\u0103 vrei cu adev\u0103rat s\u0103 prive\u0219ti conflictul prin ochii altuia \u0219i s\u0103 nu \u00eencepi din nou s\u0103-i repro\u0219ezi ceva, aceast\u0103 \u00eentrebare poate deveni un pas c\u0103tre reconciliere.<\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: large;\">2. Dorin\u021bele tale sunt rezonabile \u0219i de \u00een\u021beles<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Ai \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat cum o persoan\u0103 vede situa\u021bia din partea sa. Este posibil s\u0103 fi auzit argumente cu care po\u021bi fi de acord. Spune-o direct.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">De exemplu, partenerul t\u0103u spune c\u0103 este o problem\u0103 pentru el c\u0103 por\u021bi c\u0103\u0219ti tot timpul. Dac\u0103 trebuie s\u0103-\u021bi spun\u0103 ceva, \u00eel repet\u0103 de dou\u0103 sau chiar de trei ori &#8211; altfel pur \u0219i simplu nu auzi. Nu i-a pl\u0103cut mult timp \u0219i \u00een cele din urm\u0103 a explodat.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Dac\u0103 crezi c\u0103 \u00eentr-o zi \u0219i tu te-ai s\u0103tura s\u0103 nu fii auzit, recunoa\u0219te-o. Po\u021bi spune pur \u0219i simplu: \u201eDa, este o dorin\u021b\u0103 rezonabil\u0103 s\u0103 sim\u021bi c\u0103 e\u0219ti tratat cu aten\u021bie. De asemenea, ar fi nepl\u0103cut pentru mine s\u0103 repet \u00een continuare ceea ce s-a spus deja.\u201d Ei bine, atunci voi doi v\u0103 pute\u021bi g\u00e2ndi cum s\u0103 evita\u021bi astfel de ne\u00een\u021belegeri \u00een viitor. De exemplu, sunte\u021bi de acord asupra unui semnal dup\u0103 care v\u0103 ve\u021bi scoate imediat c\u0103\u0219tile.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: large;\">3. Sunt sup\u0103rat pentru c\u0103&#8230;<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Partenerul t\u0103u nu \u0219tie cum vezi tu ceea ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103. El poate spune ce nu-i place, dar \u00een acela\u0219i timp nu observ\u0103 ceea ce consideri tu, fiind o problem\u0103. Prin urmare, ar trebui s\u0103 explici cum arat\u0103 situa\u021bia din punctul t\u0103u de vedere.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">De exemplu, \u00een povestea cu c\u0103\u0219tile, ai putea comunica c\u0103 cel mai bun mod de a v\u0103 relaxa dup\u0103 munc\u0103 sau dup\u0103 \u0219coal\u0103 este s\u0103 asculta\u021bi muzic\u0103. Dar nu vrei s\u0103 ridici volumul la volum maxim pentru a nu-\u021bi deranja partenerul. Pentru c\u0103 \u0219tii: \u00eei place t\u0103cerea. \u0218i te-a durut c\u0103 nu vorbise niciodat\u0103 despre problem\u0103 \u00eenainte de ceart\u0103, dar ast\u0103zi a explodat brusc. Drept urmare, conflictul a \u00eenceput complet nea\u0219teptat pentru tine.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Spune orice crezi c\u0103 este necesar, dar \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 o faci corect. Vorbe\u0219te calm \u0219i amabil. Sarcina ta acum nu este s\u0103 c\u00e2\u0219tigi competi\u021bia \u201ecine poate veni cu cele mai multe acuza\u021bii \u00eempotriva celuilalt\u201d, ci s\u0103 \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219i\u021bi unul altuia viziunea dumneavoastr\u0103 asupra problemei.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Prin urmare, aminte\u0219te-\u021bi trei reguli simple:<\/span><\/p>\n<\/p>\n<ul style=\"text-align: left;\">\n<li><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Vorbe\u0219te doar despre situa\u021bia de azi. Nu-\u021bi aminti ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat ieri sau toamna trecut\u0103 &#8211; acum nu este necesar.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Folose\u0219te \u201emesajele eu\u201d \u00een loc de \u201emesajele tu\u201d. Adic\u0103 spune-i: \u201eM\u0103 simt r\u0103u&#8230; \/ M\u0103 sup\u0103r&#8230; \/ \u00cemi este greu s\u0103-mi st\u0103p\u00e2nesc furia pentru c\u0103&#8230;\u201d \u0218i \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 evi\u021bi expresii de genul \u201eEste vina ta, mereu strici totul\u201d. Mai mult, nu ar trebui s\u0103 folose\u0219ti un limbaj acuzator: \u201eVorbe\u0219ti prostii complete! Ar trebui s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi pu\u021bin\u0103 polite\u021be!\u201d Altfel, cearta va continua.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">D\u0103 fapte specifice. Nu ar trebui s\u0103 spui: \u201eSunt sup\u0103rat c\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi simt indiferen\u021ba, dar nu v\u0103d deloc grij\u0103 sau aten\u021bie.\u201d Astfel de generaliz\u0103ri nu vor face dec\u00e2t s\u0103-\u021bi pun\u0103 partenerul \u00een defensiv\u0103 \u0219i cu siguran\u021b\u0103 nu vor ajuta la rezolvarea dezacordurilor. Este mai bine a\u0219a: \u201eSunt sup\u0103rat c\u0103 \u00eencepi imediat o conversa\u021bie despre c\u0103\u0219ti cu un \u021bip\u0103t.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Al doilea \u0219i al treilea principiu sunt de asemenea bune, deoarece mesajul ,,eu&#8221; corect este greu de formulat \u00eentr-o stare de furie sau resentimente. Aceasta \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 vei avea un motiv \u00eentemeiat s\u0103 te calmezi \u0219i s\u0103 arunci o privire sobr\u0103 asupra situa\u021biei.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: large;\">4. Nu am vrut s\u0103 te jignesc<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Este pu\u021bin probabil ca fiecare dintre voi s\u0103-\u0219i fi stabilit cu calm obiectivul de a-l lovi pe cel\u0103lalt c\u00e2t mai tare posibil. Cel mai probabil, am\u00e2ndoi v\u0103 ap\u0103ra\u021bi \u0219i nu avea\u021bi inten\u021bia de a v\u0103 r\u0103ni persoana iubit\u0103. De asemenea, merit\u0103 s\u0103 spui c\u0103 nu ai vrut s\u0103 v\u0103 facci r\u0103u partenerului. Acest lucru v\u0103 va ajuta pe am\u00e2ndoi s\u0103 v\u0103 cobor\u00e2\u021bi mental scuturile \u0219i s\u0103 v\u0103 desface\u021bi pumnii.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Dac\u0103 vrei s\u0103 auzi cuvinte similare de la partenerul t\u0103u, \u00eentreab\u0103-l despre asta. De asemenea, po\u021bi spune: \u201eNu aveam nicio inten\u021bie s\u0103 v\u0103 r\u0103nesc. La fel \u0219i tu faci, nu?\u201d Dac\u0103 o persoan\u0103 iubit\u0103 confirm\u0103 c\u0103 nu are o piatr\u0103 \u00een s\u00e2n, am\u00e2ndoi v\u0103 ve\u021bi sim\u021bi u\u0219ura\u021bi. Acest lucru v\u0103 va ajuta s\u0103 v\u0103 reface\u021bi mai repede.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Ei bine, dac\u0103 \u021bi se pare c\u0103 partenerul t\u0103u vorbe\u0219te despre absen\u021ba inten\u021biilor agresive f\u0103r\u0103 sinceritate, vei primi un semnal: trebuie schimbat ceva \u00een rela\u021bie.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: large;\">5. Mul\u021bumesc pentru&#8230;<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Dac\u0103 nu a\u021bi avut o lupt\u0103 final\u0103, cu siguran\u021b\u0103 ave\u021bi pentru ce s\u0103 v\u0103 mul\u021bumi\u021bi unul altuia. Dar, dup\u0103 o ceart\u0103, oamenii fac foarte rar acest lucru. Mul\u021bi oameni cred c\u0103 este mai bine s\u0103-\u0219i apere propria pozi\u021bie p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 nu fac\u0103 compromisuri niciodat\u0103. Li se pare c\u0103 orice pas c\u0103tre partenerul lor este un semn de sl\u0103biciune. \u0218i, de asemenea, un semnal c\u0103 interesele lor pot fi ignorate. Aceasta \u00eenseamn\u0103, cred ei, c\u0103 nu ar trebui s\u0103 v\u0103 mul\u021bumeasc\u0103, ci s\u0103 continue s\u0103-\u0219i arate resentimentele.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: large;\">Dar \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 vezi ce bine a f\u0103cut partenerul t\u0103u \u00eentr-o situa\u021bie de conflict. De exemplu, nu a continuat s\u0103 \u021bipe la tine, ci a spus calm: \u201eM-am sup\u0103rat c\u0103 nu r\u0103spunzi la mesajele din messenger \u00een timpul zilei, iar seara abia ridici capul de pe laptop c\u00e2nd apar eu la acas\u0103. \u0218i, de asemenea, aceste c\u0103\u0219ti&#8230;\u201d Datorit\u0103 explica\u021biei partenerului t\u0103u, po\u021bi sim\u021bi c\u0103 e\u0219ti \u00een locul lui, sim\u021bi-i dezam\u0103girea. \u00cel \u00een\u021belege\u021bi pu\u021bin mai bine, iar acest lucru v\u0103 poate aduce beneficii rela\u021biei. Deci, este ceva de spus pentru mul\u021bumesc.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: large;\">6. Cum credezi c\u0103 putem rezolva problema?<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Sau mai simplu: \u201eCe crezi c\u0103 ar trebui s\u0103 facem acum?\u201d G\u0103sirea \u00eempreun\u0103 a unei ie\u0219iri poate fi nu numai mai util\u0103, ci \u0219i mai pl\u0103cut\u0103 dec\u00e2t s\u0103 ne repro\u0219\u0103m unul altuia. \u0218i \u00eentreb\u0103ri ca acestea ajut\u0103 la transformarea unei cearte \u00eentr-un dialog constructiv.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Apoi, ar trebui s\u0103 v\u0103 asculta\u021bi partenerul, s\u0103 v\u0103 oferi\u021bi solu\u021bia \u0219i apoi s\u0103 discuta\u021bi \u00eempreun\u0103 cum s\u0103 remedia\u021bi problema. Cu siguran\u021b\u0103 ave\u021bi propria idee despre cum s\u0103 corecta\u021bi situa\u021bia. Dar altcineva poate sugera o cale de ie\u0219ire pe care nu ai observat-o. Iar brainstormingul comun duce uneori la solu\u021bii noi la care niciunul dintre voi nici nu v-a\u021bi g\u00e2ndit \u00eenainte. O modalitate bun\u0103 de a \u00eencepe aceast\u0103 discu\u021bie este s\u0103-i ceri direct p\u0103rerea partenerului t\u0103u.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><span style=\"font-size: large;\">7. Iart\u0103-m\u0103<\/span><\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Probabil cea mai simpl\u0103 fraz\u0103. Dac\u0103 \u00een\u021belege\u021bi c\u0103 nu numai partenerul dvs., ci \u0219i a\u021bi sus\u021binut activ cearta, v\u0103 pute\u021bi cere scuze \u00een siguran\u021b\u0103. \u0218i promite-\u021bi \u00een primul r\u00e2nd c\u0103 vei face altfel data viitoare.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Ei bine, dac\u0103 vi se pare c\u0103 ave\u021bi \u00eenc\u0103 100 la sut\u0103 dreptate, dar persoana iubit\u0103 nu are, atunci conversa\u021bia nu s-a \u00eencheiat \u00eenc\u0103. Te po\u021bi \u00eentoarce la primul punct \u0219i din nou s\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 vezi situa\u021bia din punctul de vedere al altuia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\"><br \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: medium;\">Toate aceste fraze pot ajuta dac\u0103 ceea ce este important pentru tine nu este un calm temporar \u00eenainte de urm\u0103toarea furtun\u0103, ci o rela\u021bie stabil\u0103. Cele care sunt construite pe baza interesului \u0219i respectului reciproc.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Majoritatea conflictelor cu cei dragi se termin\u0103 mai devreme sau mai t\u00e2rziu \u00een reconciliere, iar acest lucru este grozav. 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