{"id":200,"date":"2021-03-09T19:58:00","date_gmt":"2021-03-09T19:58:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/?p=193"},"modified":"2021-03-09T19:58:00","modified_gmt":"2021-03-09T19:58:00","slug":"cum-sa-devii-un-interlocutor-interesant","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/?p=200","title":{"rendered":"Cum s\u0103 devii un interlocutor interesant."},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u0218ase sfaturi scurte pentru a v\u0103 spori abilit\u0103\u021bile de comunicare.<\/b>

1. Nu fi plictisitor.
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Spui o poveste fascinant\u0103 \u0219i vezi oameni c\u0103sc\u00e2nd?  Poate c\u0103 aceast\u0103 poveste nu este at\u00e2t de interesant\u0103 pe c\u00e2t crezi. \u00cencerca\u021bi s\u0103 o finalizezi c\u00e2t mai cur\u00e2nd \u0219i l\u0103sa\u021bi-i pe al\u021bii s\u0103 vorbeasc\u0103. Uneori ceea ce spui nu este pe interes tuturor.

2. \u00cenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 ascul\u021bi.<\/span><\/u><\/b><\/div>\n<\/div>\n

Las\u0103-l pe cel\u0103lalt s\u0103-\u021bi spun\u0103 despre sine. Pune-i \u00eentreb\u0103ri. \u00cen mod ciudat, oamenii care ne plac cel mai mult vorbesc \u00eentotdeauna pu\u021bin.<\/p>\n

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3. Discut\u0103 despre interesele interlocutorului.<\/span><\/u><\/b><\/div>\n
\u00centreb\u0103 despre hobby-ul s\u0103u, pune\u021bi diferite \u00eentreb\u0103ri \u0219i discuta\u021bi-le. E\u0219ti deja 80% aproape de a fi agreat. Dac\u0103 e\u0219ti bine informat \u00een ce \u021bine de hobby-ul interlocutorului, atunci po\u021bi continua cu u\u0219urin\u021b\u0103 conversa\u021bia. Dac\u0103 nu, atunci cerei-i mai multe detalii. El \u00ee\u021bi va spune cu mare pl\u0103cere.<\/div>\n
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4. \u021aine trei pove\u0219ti \u00een rezerv\u0103.<\/span><\/u><\/b><\/div>\n
Oamenii nu sunt interesa\u021bi de func\u021biile noului t\u0103u telefon. Ceea ce \u00eei provoac\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat sunt evenimente reale care \u021bi s-au \u00eent\u00e2mplat. Prin urmare, ai \u00eentotdeauna trei pove\u0219ti de spus. Ele trebuie s\u0103 fie emo\u021bionante \u0219i captivante. Las\u0103-l pe interlocutor s\u0103 fie interesat de ceea ce se va \u00eent\u00e2mpla \u00een minutul urm\u0103tor.<\/div>\n
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5. Dezvolt\u0103 carisma.<\/u><\/span><\/b><\/div>\n
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Exist\u0103 at\u00e2t de mult\u0103 semnifica\u021bie \u00een acest cuv\u00e2nt \u00eenc\u00e2t devine dificil s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem adev\u0103ratul s\u0103u sens. Cineva spune c\u0103 se nasc cu carism\u0103, \u00een timp ce al\u021bii cred c\u0103 aceast\u0103 tr\u0103s\u0103tur\u0103 de personalitate se dezvolt\u0103 de-a lungul anilor. Dar iat\u0103 ce este interesant: o cercetare, realizat\u0103 de doi psihologi \u00een 1967, a ar\u0103tat c\u0103 doar 7% din conversa\u021bie se acord\u0103 cuvintelor. Restul este \u00een tonul vorbirii \u0219i al limbajului corpului.<\/div>\n
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R\u00e2zi, z\u00e2mbe\u0219te, fii . Nu uita de gesturi \u0219i nu te bazai numai pe cuvinte.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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6. Tr\u0103ie\u0219te o via\u021b\u0103 interesant\u0103.<\/u><\/b><\/span><\/div>\n
Discut\u0103 cu diferite persoane, cite\u0219te mai multe c\u0103r\u021bi, prive\u0219te filme, c\u0103l\u0103tore\u0219te. Cel mai corect mod de a deveni o persoan\u0103 interesant\u0103 este de a tr\u0103i o via\u021b\u0103 interesant\u0103. \u0218i crede-m\u0103, acest lucru \u00ee\u021bi va oferi mult mai mult dec\u00e2t abilitatea de a fi un bun conversator.<\/div>\n
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