{"id":209,"date":"2018-09-29T11:36:00","date_gmt":"2018-09-29T11:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/?p=202"},"modified":"2018-09-29T11:36:00","modified_gmt":"2018-09-29T11:36:00","slug":"20-de-motive-de-ce-barbatii-de-30-de-ani-se-simt-bine-singuri","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/?p=209","title":{"rendered":"20 de motive, de ce b\u0103rba\u021bii de 30 de ani, se simt bine singuri!"},"content":{"rendered":"

M-a motivat s\u0103 scriu aceste r\u00e2nduri postarea unei fete care se plictisise de b\u0103ie\u021bii de 20 de ani \u0219i se \u00eentreba unde suntem noi, b\u0103rba\u021bii de 30 de ani. Cu sinceritatea mea i-am r\u0103spuns la \u00eentrebare.<\/span>
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\nE\u0219ti sigur\u0103 c\u0103 anume de acest b\u0103rbat ai nevoie cu adev\u0103rat? <\/span><\/span>
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\n1. Noi, b\u0103rba\u021bii de 30 de ani, nu credem \u00een oameni \u0219i mai ales \u00een femei \u0219i nu prea permitem noilor cunoscu\u021bi s\u0103 intre \u00een lumea noastr\u0103 deja creat\u0103.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n2. Ne-am obi\u0219nuit s\u0103 ob\u021binem totul singuri, de aia s\u0103 faci cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 cu noi \u2013 este dificil.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n3. Avem p\u0103reri \u00eenvechite, de asta deseori suntem plictisitori.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n4. Suntem \u00eentr-o criz\u0103 a reg\u0103sirii sensului vie\u021bii, deci suntem foaarte plictisitori.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n5. \u0218tim foarte bine ce vrem, de aia cerin\u021bele fa\u021b\u0103 de omul de al\u0103turi sunt mari. A\u0219a femei pur \u0219i simplu nu exist\u0103.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n6. Suntem departe de ideal, \u0219tim c\u0103 perechi fericite nu exist\u0103. Tindem spre patriarhat \u2013 ai nevoie de asta?<\/span><\/div>\n
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\n7. Suntem ra\u021bionali, nu credem \u00een dragoste, deci nu prea ne sunt pe plac gesturile sentimentale.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n8. Ne pricepem la oameni, de asta te ghicim din prima or\u0103 de discu\u021bie. Chiar dac\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2nem dr\u0103gu\u021bi.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n9. Nu prea accept\u0103m ideea de a avea so\u021bie, de vreme ce nu ne-am c\u0103s\u0103torit p\u00e2n\u0103 acum. \u0218tim c\u0103 ne pute\u021bi da lumea peste cap, de asta ne asigur\u0103m s\u0103 nu fie a\u0219a.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n10. Calea prin stomac este \u00eenchis\u0103 \u0219i ea \u2013 \u0219tim foarte bine s\u0103 g\u0103tim \u0219i singuri.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n11. Rela\u021biile sexuale nu sunt o problem\u0103. Am reu\u0219it s\u0103 cunoa\u0219tem femei care au nevoie de noi.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n12. Sexul, pentru c\u0103 e accesibil, nu mai este o pl\u0103cere. Este o form\u0103 de comunicare dintre o femeie \u0219i un b\u0103rbat. Ai nevoie de asta?<\/span><\/div>\n
\n13. Vorbim c\u0103 este timpul s\u0103 \u00eentemeiem o familie, s\u0103 facem copii. Bla bla bla. Nu avem nevoie de asta.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n14. Nu ne este team\u0103 de singur\u0103tate, chiar ne este pl\u0103cut s\u0103 fim doar noi. Nu cred c\u0103 \u021bi-ar pl\u0103cea asta.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n15. Putem s\u0103 st\u0103m acas\u0103 at\u00e2t timp c\u00e2t dorim, f\u0103r\u0103 a primi repro\u0219ul cuiva.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n16. Am uitat despre demnitate \u0219i sentimentul de vin\u0103. Nu func\u021bioneaz\u0103 lacrimile, promisiunile, sup\u0103r\u0103rile, alintul. Putem s\u0103 ne protej\u0103m de orice manipulare. Nici o rochie scurt\u0103 nu ajut\u0103.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n17. La fraza \u201eb\u0103rbatul trebuie\u201d \u2013 z\u00e2mbim copios. \u0218tim singuri ce \u0219i cui trebuie. Nu cred c\u0103 neap\u0103rat vou\u0103, femeilor.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n18. La fraza \u201ee\u0219ti f\u0103r\u0103 emo\u021bii\u201d, d\u0103m \u00eencet afirmativ din cap.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n19. Chiar \u0219i \u201enu e\u0219ti b\u0103rbat\u201d nu ne mai r\u0103ne\u0219te emo\u021bional.<\/span><\/div>\n
\n20. Am l\u0103sat deoparte grijile \u0219i am \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat s\u0103 uit\u0103m.<\/span><\/div>\n
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\nDe aia te \u00eentreb: nu este mai simplu s\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti un b\u0103iat de 20 de ani \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eencerci s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i l\u00e2ng\u0103 el, cel pu\u021bin p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eempline\u0219te 30 de ani?<\/span><\/span><\/div>\n
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