{"id":216,"date":"2017-12-30T13:47:00","date_gmt":"2017-12-30T13:47:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/?p=209"},"modified":"2017-12-30T13:47:00","modified_gmt":"2017-12-30T13:47:00","slug":"4-lucruri-care-ne-incurca-sa-traim","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/?p=216","title":{"rendered":"4 lucruri care ne \u00eencurc\u0103 s\u0103 tr\u0103im."},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u00ce\u021bi voi spune despre c\u00e2teva chestii care te \u00eencurc\u0103 s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti iar dac\u0103 le vei rezolva sau nu, deja depinde de c\u00e2t de mult \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti.<\/span><\/div>\n

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1. Nu fi ca to\u021bi<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n

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Nu mai tr\u0103i dup\u0103 principiul – ce va fi, va fi! Acest g\u00e2nd te va trage la fund. Dar tu e\u0219ti prea bun ca s\u0103 fii ca restul.<\/span><\/div>\n
De azi, lucrul plictisitor \u0219i rutina zilnic\u0103, nu mai sunt pentru tine. \u0218tiu, s\u0103 te schimbi e cam dificil dar nu continua s\u0103 degradezi! Sunt dou\u0103 c\u0103i – \u00een jos \u0219i \u00een sus. Tu pe care o alegi? Mereu g\u0103se\u0219ti motiv c\u0103 la to\u021bi e a\u0219a \u0219i crezi c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 o faci ca ei dar e gre\u0219it. Ei zic c\u0103 dragostea nu exist\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 fete normale nu mai sunt. P\u0103i dac\u0103 vei umbla ca ei prin cluburi sau vei c\u0103uta fete pe matrimoniale p\u0103i \u0219i normal c\u0103 nu vei g\u0103si nimic. Dar toat\u0103 lumea doar asta \u0219i \u0219tie, s\u0103 nu fac\u0103 nimic \u0219i s\u0103 le cad\u0103 totul din pod. Tu nu e\u0219ti ca to\u021bii.<\/span><\/div>\n
Ce \u021bine de servici, to\u021bi zic c\u0103 e criz\u0103 \u0219i c\u0103 au obosit de lucru, c\u0103 nu le place dar pe nimeni nu am v\u0103zut \u0219i nu am auzit ca s\u0103 fac\u0103 ceva pentru a o schimba, s\u0103 se ocupe de ceva care \u00eentr-adev\u0103r le place.<\/span><\/div>\n
\u0218i nimeni nu face nimic ca s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i schimbe via\u021ba, ei sunt siguri c\u0103 a\u0219a \u0219i trebuie \u0219i c\u0103 e corect ceea ce fac pentru c\u0103 a\u0219a fac \u0219i restul.<\/span><\/div>\n
P\u0103i ce naiba te \u00eencurc\u0103 s\u0103 fii de succes \u0219i s\u0103 faci ceea ce \u00ee\u021bi place, s\u0103 ai ceea ce vrei? Ah, da, c\u00e2t pe ce s\u0103 uit, \u00eei mai u\u0219or s\u0103 la\u0219i totul balt\u0103…<\/span><\/div>\n
Apoi iat\u0103, nu mai face a\u0219a. Fii ambi\u021bios \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u021binat \u00een ceea ce vrei s\u0103 ob\u021bii, c\u00e2t de greu nu ar fi. Fii unic \u00een felul t\u0103u.<\/span><\/div>\n

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2. Timpul potrivit nu exist\u0103<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n

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Iat\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103 un factor – timpul potrivit. Nu a\u0219tepta, el nu exist\u0103.<\/span><\/div>\n
Tr\u0103ie\u0219te dup\u0103 principiul aici \u0219i acum. Vrei s\u0103 faci ceva – f\u0103! Alt\u0103 \u0219ans\u0103 s-ar putea s\u0103 nu mai fie. Mul\u021bi au mai auzit aceast\u0103 fraz\u0103 dar pu\u021bini au fost aten\u021bi la ea. Te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti c\u0103 mai bine ar fi s\u0103 la\u0219i pe m\u00e2ine, c\u0103 vei mai avea ocazia. S-ar putea s\u0103 nu mai fie. Cu siguran\u021b\u0103 e mai u\u0219or s\u0103 stai toat\u0103 ziua \u00een pat dar asta nu va rezolva nimic. S\u0103 fim \u0219i reali\u0219ti, a\u0219a c\u0103 nu visa la ceva, mai bine ridic\u0103-te \u0219i ob\u021bine ceea ce vrei. Fii \u00eencrezut \u00een tine. Nu uita c\u0103 to\u021bi au \u00eenceput de la zero a\u0219a c\u0103 \u00eencepe de la pu\u021bin \u0219i pe parcurs vei putea s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi permi\u021bi mai mult.<\/span><\/div>\n
C\u00e2t pe ce s\u0103 uit, fiecare lucru are nevoie de preg\u0103tire. Spre exemplu, c\u00e2nd te duci la dans sau la sal\u0103, la box sau s\u0103 alergi, mereu \u00ee\u021bi preg\u0103te\u0219ti lucrurile, a\u0219a \u0219i \u00een via\u021ba de zi cu zi. Vrei s\u0103 faci afaceri? Ar fi bine s\u0103 te preg\u0103te\u0219ti. Cite\u0219te c\u0103r\u021bi din domeniu, prive\u0219te sau mergi la training. <\/span><\/div>\n

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3. M\u0103\u0219tile.<\/b><\/span><\/div>\n

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M\u0103\u0219tile – mii vom\u0103 de ele. Faci cuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 cu o persoan\u0103, la \u00eenceput pare educat\u0103 \u0219i dr\u0103gu\u021b\u0103, prietenoas\u0103 \u0219i de \u00eencredere. \u00cencepi s\u0103 colaborezi cu acea persoan\u0103, s\u0103 prietene\u0219ti sau s\u0103 te \u00eent\u00e2lne\u0219ti, depinde de situa\u021bie. Peste o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 sau mai mult, devine o antitez\u0103 la ceea ce era. \u0218tii de ce? Pentru c\u0103 to\u021bi vor s\u0103 par\u0103 din prima dat\u0103 mult mai buni dec\u00e2t sunt \u00eens\u0103 cu timpul iese la iveal\u0103 fa\u021ba lor adev\u0103rat\u0103. Mul\u021bi vor s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi fie pe plac \u0219i se comport\u0103 un timp doar a\u0219a cum \u00ee\u021bi place \u021bie \u0219i pentru c\u0103 nu e fa\u021ba lor adev\u0103rat\u0103, cu timpul ei nu mai au putere s\u0103 fie a\u0219a ci revin la ceea ce sunt cu adev\u0103rat. Rar c\u00e2nd vei \u00eent\u00e2lni pe cineva care s\u0103 fie adev\u0103rat \u0219i s\u0103 se comporte a\u0219a cum o face de zi cu zi. Dac\u0103 ai \u00eent\u00e2lnit o astfel de persoan\u0103, atunci te felicit. Ai avut noroc. Nu fi fals. Arunc\u0103 masca pentru c\u0103 persoanele adev\u0103rate ca personalitate nu vor fugi ci vor r\u0103m\u00e2ne, fie iubita ta, fie cel mai bun prieten sau noul cunoscut.<\/span><\/div>\n

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4. Fii om!<\/span><\/b><\/div>\n

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Dac\u0103 s\u0103 fii cu adev\u0103rat om \u0219i s\u0103 o faci cum trebuie apoi nu \u021bi se va sui nimeni \u00een cap.<\/span><\/div>\n
Nim\u0103nui nu-i plac m\u00e2rlanii iar dac\u0103 cuiva chiar \u00eei place \u0219i consider\u0103 c\u0103 a\u0219a persoane sunt mai \u00eencrezute p\u0103i zic direct c\u0103 sunt pro\u0219ti \u0219i la fel ca ei.<\/span><\/div>\n
Iat\u0103 spre exemplu \u0219eful t\u0103u poate fi un m\u0103gar care chiar dac\u0103 vei avea nevoie de un bonus pentru c\u0103 te-ai \u00eemboln\u0103vit grav, acesta nu va merge \u00een \u00eent\u00e2mpinare \u0219i va zice c\u0103 e problema ta. El ar putea la fel s\u0103 fac\u0103 a\u0219a ca s\u0103 ai tura de lucru chiar \u00een ziua nun\u021bii sau zilei tale de na\u0219tere. \u0218i totul pentru a-\u021bi ar\u0103ta c\u0103 este o persoan\u0103 influent\u0103. Pur \u0219i simplu el \u00ee\u0219i bag\u0103 p…iciorul \u00een problema ta.<\/span><\/div>\n
Deci bun exemplu? Te-am convins sau vrei s\u0103 fii ca el?<\/span><\/div>\n
Cu siguran\u021b\u0103 vei zice c\u0103 ca \u0219ef trebuie s\u0103 fii un pic mai aspru cu lucr\u0103torii – doar c\u0103 m\u00e2rlan \u0219i aspru sunt dou\u0103 lucruri diferite. \u0218i diferen\u021ba dintre ele se simte deodat\u0103.<\/span><\/div>\n
Nu e nimic r\u0103u \u0219i nu e deloc o sl\u0103biciune \u00een a fi empatic \u0219i s\u0103 ar\u0103\u021bi un pic de emotivitate la problema altora. Asta nu te va face slab \u0219i nim\u0103nui nici unui b\u0103rbat nu \u00eei vor c\u0103dea ou\u0103le de la asta. Din contra te va face om \u00een plinul cuv\u00e2ntului \u0219i \u00ee\u021bi va ad\u0103uga procent  la respect. A\u0219a c\u0103 fii om cu adev\u0103rat. Vrei ca lumea s\u0103 fie mai bun\u0103? \u00cencepe prin a fi mai bun, mai corect! Schimbarea \u00eencepe de la tine.<\/span><\/div>\n
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\u00ce\u021bi voi spune despre c\u00e2teva chestii care te \u00eencurc\u0103 s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti iar dac\u0103 le vei rezolva sau nu, deja depinde de c\u00e2t de mult \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti.1. Nu fi ca to\u021biNu mai…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":2433,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-216","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-productivitate"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/216","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=216"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/216\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2433"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=216"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=216"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/valuestream.club\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=216"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}